Dear Susan Waldman,
Thank you for sharing that link to the article. The article reminded me of my time in the classroom. I reminisced about having a harmonious classroom that ran off the track.
Like the article said, go back to the beginning; just when we think children are grounded in the practice and routines we have established for them things can fall apart because of a new student or something else. We, teachers need to remember that the classroom routines and students are working in harmony because we are intentionally making sure every part of the day is going smoothly. When we get comfortable and drop our guard the children sense that change. As the article says, we need to go back to the beginning. We need to reestablish our intentionality and reflect on what are the needs of the children at that point in time. Returning to community norms of the classroom, routines, self and parallel talk and especially acknowledgement and affirmations are classroom basics. Children love attention. They crave attention. They just want to be seen even when we think they've "got it" . It is the teachers role to highlight the positive social behavior to keep the train on the track.
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Theodora Ridley
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Original Message:
Sent: 02-27-2020 13:27
From: Susan Waldman
Subject: behavior management
https://www.edweek.org/tm/articles/2019/02/12/i-have-one-new-student-so-why.html?cmp=SOC-EDIT-FB&sfns=mo
Food for thought.
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Susan Hinman Waldman
Practice Based Coach
Communities United Inc.
Watertown, MA
Original Message:
Sent: 02-27-2020 12:39
From: Heather Wallace
Subject: behavior management
Hi! I'm a new CLASS mentor/coach for Head Start. I'm having trouble with one class that I mentor. I was in there all morning and the children did great. Mainly due to me continuing to engage them with songs and activities during transitions/wait time. Then lunch came. This transition was chaos. There were three of us in there and none of us could get the children settled to eat. About 5 boys were running around the carpet, some occassionally starting to fight. When I got one settled and went back for another then that first child would get up and start running again. I finally took 3 of them out of the room for a walk to the bathroom (they were still running down the halls but I at least helped them calm their body) and the teachers were at least able to get most of the children started eating, though not without yelling I'm sure :( They have been really working on using positive redirection so it's frustrating when it gets like this and they feel hopeless and yell. This has started when a new student came into the room. They were making strides on routines but the routines weren't strong enough yet to support this child. I would like advice on how to help her when the room gets in chaos. as well as how to prevent. Thanks for any tips!