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Dear Educator,
I am so very sorry you were treated this way. Hugs!! That was completely unacceptable and highly unprofessional. Is this principal always like this or was it an "off day"? Regardless, you are a person with feelings and should not be subjected to that. I would sit down this weekend, and with a clear head, document all the times you have attempted to guide your assistant. Leave feelings out, just be factual. Briefly describe what you have attempted, if they were responsive, any concerns noted, etc. Try to list the date, time, the activity/location and who was present. Next week, request a meeting with your principal. As hard as it will be, try to leave emotions out. Tell them you did not appreciate being spoken to in a degrading manner and from here on out, all conversations need to be factual and need to provide supportive and constructive feedback. Provide a COPY of your documentation of your efforts in your classroom with the assistant. Then ask the principal how they are going to positively support you, the assistant and the students in the classroom for the remainder of the year. Put it back on the principal; training an assistant is not your responsibility, it is that of HR or another designated person. Bring a paper & pen so you can jot down notes of the conversation. Within the next 24hrs, send a recap email to the principal, highlighting the main points you both discussed. You want a paper trail!
As hard as it may be, go back into the classroom and do your best that you can. You are there for the children and they need a strong, compassionate educator. CLASS Observation is one snippet of your teaching and guiding. Use it as a resource, but do not let it define you. You know your strengths and know you are making a difference so don't lose sight of that.
Are you in a school district? If so, I would check to see if they have a teacher's union and join it ASAP. The rep can attend meetings with you. If you do not have a union, try to find a neutral co-worker to sit in on meetings with you. I hope you have a much better week and that peace finds you soon.
Original Message:
Sent: 10-30-2025 11:32
From: Dr. Kristy Joy Cox
Subject: CLASS Observation
Dear friend,
This absolutely breaks my heart for you! I was a certified CLASS Observer and Affiliate Pre-K CLASS Trainer for nearly 10 years and completed my doctoral dissertation on CLASS as a means of professional development for teachers. I believe that CLASS was designed to grow teachers and we all grow best through a strengths-based approach. (Due to a shifting role in my professional journey, I had to let my CLASS certifications lapse, but CLASS will always be in my heart.)
I truly found CLASS to be a useful tool to SUPPORT TEACHERS so that they could SUPPORT CHILDREN!
I'm so very sorry for your experience!
For children,
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