When we have our first visit during enrollment, we have families indicate if they have a preferred name they want used with their child. Often times our children have indigenous names they prefer. I'm not sure this falls in a 'pet' name or not, but it would not be their government/ID name, so to speak. As far as the 'darling' goes, I feel that could be a regional expression, if that makes sense.
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JolenePetticrew
Eagle RiverAK
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