I'm so sorry, I know how frustrating it can be. Here's my best advice. I hope it helps.
I did a ton of practice vids and 'mapped out' my errors. That way I could see if I was consistently under or over scoring in any particular dimension. If that was the case, I nudged my score accordingly. But then I also went to the library and watched a bunch of examples of that domain to get a better feel for it. If there was no discernable pattern, the library really helped put it into perspective.
Good luck! You've got this!
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Jennifer Brown
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